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Sexual repression is a way of life, it is not freedom in any way. The most important aspect of a sexually repressed society is the inability to find sex pleasurable. There is too much guilt and shame associated with it. What is shameful about finding sex enjoyable? Why is it dishonourable to do so? Everyone is, to  a certain degree perverted in one way or another- but everyone wants to give the appearance of being 'just like everyone else' - which is, for all practical purposes impossible. Everyone has some sexual quirk which differs from another person.
We live in a world in which norms are dictated by a group of people who have specific values and want others to follow them. A concerted effort has gone to into desexualising children. In the movies of the 1950 and 1960s children were not desexualised. Take for instance the movie Yesterday Today Tomorrow -  Sophia Loren is lying and a boy fingers her.  That would be unacceptable today - because the powers that be are will not allow it.  Children have to be far removed from  sex as much as possible.  An advertisement recently was removed because children were shown dressed up on a beach, but were laughing because a short distance from them a man was wading completely naked on the sea shore.
There are advocates who are the nosiest of all condemning the sexualising of children. But does noise really change reality?  In a world of single mothers, the free availability of liquor at home. Women having little or no time to rear their children. Those children practically grow up wild - their neighbours and friends are exactly the same. These are not children they are young adults.
Just because child porn is off the Internet, does not necessarily mean it is not available otherwise in other media. In any case coming to a free life - where there is no sexual repression and nearly absolute freedom - people spend their weekends - binge drinking, watch porn openly and a great deal. Someone said that porn is a drug - it is a drug which everyone enjoys.  What it does to relationships,  means nothing in a society in which everything is disposable even marriages are. Drop one person for another.
Everything is disposable in a disposable society. Alvin Toffler had written about this in Future Shock.  Nothing is meant to be permanent, everything has to discarded quickly so that something new can be introduced. Porn is called adult entertainment - makes sense - children are little adults. It is not possible to tell children's stories to to them. The bedtime story for them is means sharing ones bed with someone else and they perpetually have sex on their mind. But the advertisement says no children are asexual and will be traumatised if they see anything remotely sexual.
These children watch soap operas on different channels which have adult themes. The parent does not have the time or inclination to stop their child from viewing anything.  People interested in selling child proofing software - were interested in promoting that porn was bad for kids, hence  the parent or parents should buy the software. The purpose was not to benefit kids, or parents - it was to  sell software nothing more. When people realised it was a scam, they stopped buying.
Why filter something when kids are going to grow up soon. Now with the introduction of Smartphones, every kid has access to the Internet and can view all kinds of porn. Children are very sexually aware its the false advertising is creating the impression that they are not.  In Europe the ban on child porn is slowly going away - because everyone is aware it is impossible to police such things. Where the ban is very powerful this business is in the hands of very powerful gangs who run their drug operations, manufacture and sell child porn on large scale. Anything which is illegal becomes lucrative business for the mob. If drugs were legalised and the ban on child porn lifted, the gangsters would turn to some other business which will make them wealthy.
Politicians stand to gain the most from keeping everything illegal, because in that way they can get the necessary funding for election purposes. Most of the laws which exist are for political reasons and none other.

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