I had an arranged marriage with a woman who I discovered was uneducated amongst her many flaws. Her father was not the least interested in getting his children, he was only interested in getting them married.His elder daughters, it was uphill task to convince him to get them in admitted in the university, however he was interested in studying medicine, because it conflicted with his need to have his daughters married early otherwise they would lose their looks. He lied to her about the outstanding grades which would immediately get admission in a medical college. She found out this terrible deception after her marriage. He stopped the education of one son, because did not consider him fit. My who was the youngest, was also going to suffer the same fate, she fought tooth and nail to continue with her education. Her elder brother brother could have entered medical college but his father flatly refused.
Later the same brother was married off to a woman, in which education was not given much importance. I had wife learn how to drive and she got a job as a teacher. It was hard work but in the long term. Her brother's wife did not know English and did not encourage her to learn how to drive. But now he has settled in Canada, she has to learn English and also learn how to drive, things he never wanted to know. My father-in-law instead of spending money on his ow children's education he was building mosques.
These are two examples of families who never valued education. From this one can learn that there are lots of mentally ill people. they will agree with the benefits of education, but will do the exact opposite. They do not accept 'foreign ideas' which will 'corrupt their values'
Later the same brother was married off to a woman, in which education was not given much importance. I had wife learn how to drive and she got a job as a teacher. It was hard work but in the long term. Her brother's wife did not know English and did not encourage her to learn how to drive. But now he has settled in Canada, she has to learn English and also learn how to drive, things he never wanted to know. My father-in-law instead of spending money on his ow children's education he was building mosques.
These are two examples of families who never valued education. From this one can learn that there are lots of mentally ill people. they will agree with the benefits of education, but will do the exact opposite. They do not accept 'foreign ideas' which will 'corrupt their values'
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