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I had an arranged marriage with a woman who I discovered was uneducated amongst her many flaws. Her father was not the least interested in getting his children, he was only interested in getting them married.His elder daughters, it was uphill task to convince him to get them in admitted in the university, however he was interested in studying medicine, because it conflicted with his need to have his daughters married early otherwise they would lose their looks. He lied to her about the outstanding grades which would immediately get admission in a medical college. She found out this terrible deception after her marriage. He stopped the education of one son, because did not consider him fit. My who was the youngest, was also going to suffer the same fate, she fought tooth and nail to continue with her education. Her elder brother brother could have entered medical college but his father flatly refused. Later the same brother was married off to a woman, in which education was not given ...

There was an asshole uncle who had retired as ambassador, he had served in the army as Colonel. Because of the prevailing political conditions he became ambassador. He was extremely proud about his accomplishment,  He had spoiled his son that refused to work, although he had an MBA. All the jobs he got were through his father's goodwill he quit and spends his days playing golf or sleeping. I of course had to work for living and make my ends meet spending long hours. Why my uncle deserved to be called an asshole, was not because of those things, though they should count, one day pulled out an encased bottle of expensive wine. Looked at me and said the meanest thing anyone could say "Can you afford to buy this? You cannot  I know, only I  can".  He was shamelessly mocking me. I was in the underprivileged category of my extended family. Nearly everyone in my extended family have had the benefit of being many times better off than I am. That somehow gave them the reaso...

If you are rich and powerful, you can get away with anything. You can enjoy yourself as much as you like. If you are not, your happiness is under the control of those who have been given the right to do so. Karachi is the city which is the richest in Pakistan.  People from all over the country throng to it, it is also the only port city, hence more cosmopolitan. What happens in Karachi spreads all over Pakistan. People who visit Karachi are influenced by it. Largely rural Pakistan imports ideas and concepts from Karachi. Though politicians moved the capital of Pakistan from Karachi to Islamabad, because Karachi is a volatile city. People in Karachi are quick to upset by any decision the government makes. Moving the capital to Islamabad, did not protect subsequent governments. Karachi through its trade and industry has a grip on the country's economy. The people of Karachi feel largely disenfranchised - because the billions of US dollars they earn is not invested in the city. Roa...

A rich man in South Asia does not spend a single thing on his daughter's extremely expensive and lavish wedding. That may sound ridiculous but it is a fact. This how the system works. The rich man has billion dollar contracts, it is up to him, to  whom he chooses to give it to. The rich man gives a 100 million dollar diamond set,  he never bought it, all that he did was sign a multi-million dollar deal. That person gladly gifts the 100 million dollar to the rich man. The rich man keeps his money safe in different banks, in the country and abroad.  The 100 million dollar diamond set is part payment of the commission for the multi-million dollar deal. All the other extravagant expenses on the wedding are made by other businessmen. Everyone else believe that the rich man has spent his own money, he never did. All that  he did was offer promises, using influence. He can easily stop doing business with any company. That company knows the rich man can do that and it w...

I was telling someone about what I got to know about Jalalabad. That Jalal was Changez Khan's son who was killed in Afghanistan.  Changez Khan was not interested in occupying Afghanistan, he learnt that his son had been killed there, he wanted to know exactly where he was buried, so that he could arrange a proper funeral for him. It took some doing after some battles, Changez Khan prevailed, the Afghans who surrendered told him about where Jalal was buried. After the funeral, Changez Khan left. The place then on became known as Jalalbad.The person whom I was telling this story,  reaction was this "Oh so Jalal's name was Jalal because he had converted to Islam" I had to explain to him that that was not the case. The Mongols accepted Islam much later.  There are semi-educated people mix up historical information with religious data. They cannot tell the difference. There was talk about how Arabs do not support Pakistan. I had my opinion let them go on with their dis...

It is a despicable unlikable industry, it is called the porn industry otherwise known as the Adult Industry. It is called an industry because of the tremendous amount of money it generates. Pakistan does not have one - but everything exists underground, the result is very poor.  There is nothing which does not exist. Pakistan's second largest brothel is Heera Mandi, in Lahore, the largest is the town of Kharian, it is a railway junction. Where there are brothels there is liquor.  The 'Islamic Republic' is merely a label, under cover of which everything happens. No one has the courage to reopen the bars, the nightclubs, the discos which which existed till the late 1970s. But perhaps due to force of nature they may open up, with people demanding more freedom. perhaps its just a matter of time. Recently a man tried to open a porn website, he was arrested, strangely enough the 'victims' denied any involvement in participating it. Porn may well become an industry in t...

I was told a strange story about pigs. Pig farmers are more prosperous than those who farm other animals. Pigs mature quickly  and are ready to be sold in a short time. As for farmers of other animals have to wait for their animals to mature. Money lenders do not like pig farmers because they pay back  their debt if any whereas farmers of other animals constantly need to buy something or the other for their animals. By the time they end up selling their animals,  they are already in debt, they have ensure they add the debt to the price of the livestock they are selling. With ample propaganda peoples beliefs about the animals they consume was changed, Certain animals were called unclean and impure whereas others were called clean and good to eat. In certain faiths specific animals were elevated to the status of deities, hence cannot be eaten. The rift between human beings is what they eat and what they do not. Some animals are considered pets for others they are food. F...