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The falsehood of unrequited love

Unrequited love- is really sick. There are emotionally dead people - they are called sociopaths. - no amount of romantic overtures done to them will make them fall in love, because they do not what love is. They can give all the impression of falling in love - as long as it is a means to an end. I fell in love  -many times - those three women did not and could not respond the same way. They were cold as ice. I was young then - thought there was something wrong with me. Or it was my fault.
Now I know better. How those women turned. Their careers mattered more to them than anything else. They have lied and cheated to the top and destroyed everyone who came in their rise. These women do not know love or any other emotion. They also can never have any genuine sexual desire. If they do have sex - it is to gain something. They also know how important it is to keep partner happy and be deserving of his love, affection and intimacy. She would be hurt  and very upset if I would give the same to some other woam
I used to think that because I had wanted them for sex - I was wrong or bad. Yes I admit that I had those feelings - they are only natural. I was dealing a with a normal and sane woman she too would  reciprocate those feelings.
Sane women genuinely seek sex and love or love and sex - it can be in any order. I just happened to have fallen in love with the wrong women - the insane kind - the sociopaths.  Had I married any of them, they would have set preconditions - with respect to love and sex. Flying in a fit or rage if I ever fall in love with another woman would not be because they feel hurt or upset. It is because they see the other woman trying to do the same thing - use sex and love as means to do get something in return. Deep seated rage is as an aspect sociopaths.
They can never understand that many at times love and sex stand alone, they are there for their own sake. Sociopaths use shame, dishonour and disrespect to prevent something like that from happening. But when the sociopath woman is recognised for who she really is, she does not have any genuine feelings - she uses and  abuses. A sociopath woman can just as easily accuse a man of raping her,  if it serves her end. Such women - destroy the credibility of the genuine rape victims. Such woman would condemn her child for masturbating - at time not hesitate to hire prostitute as a baby-sitter.
Unrequited love is some sociopath invented - because it fit so well with their persona. They are unable to respond to love with love. Unable to have sex  unconditionally. I consider those people very fortunate to have the right kind of partners who love and care for each other. Have sex with no preconditions. Are understanding and patient with each other and not be perpetually resentful and enraged.  That is a dream relationship for me - because I have never had - but its perfect and ideal - in which true love prospers. A woman and a man marry when they have discovered that they deserve to have each other. A man denies sex to her - is punishment for her. She denies him sex its punishment for him. The same goes for love.
To a be complete person love and sex are part and parcel of a true intimate and close relationship. It can start with mere lust - but turn into genuine love. Or it starts with love and becomes lust. It is only natural that a woman should be passionate about a man, as a man should be passionate a woman.
Only sociopath make sound and seem bad  - they cannot let things be. They are disconnected from the world of emotions and deep feelings - the expect others should also be.




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