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Weird anti-social behaviour

I invited my wife's family for a get together. When they came, instead of sitting down to chat, rushed to where the TV was to watch a game.I have no interest whatsoever in the game. Even if I am, I will not watch a game when I am having a get together.
 I sat where I usually sit and talk with anyone who comes visiting.This time I was sitting alone - because the game was many times more interesting than my company.
Addiction to a game and not being interested in talking about anything is some kind of anti-social behaviour. Some kind of mental illness. 
Even if the people are family, there is such a thing as  courtesy and decorum. I suppose people who are anti-social  cannot understand that is, which they brush it  aside. Only after the game ended did they come over to sit. But that was temporary, dinner was served and they rushed to the table.
It was apparent they had no interested in talking with me whatsoever. I was feeling really sickened by this behaviour. It hurt. But they were not the least concerned about that. When I am expecting guests, I make sure I am dressed my best to receive. The do exact opposite. They are always under-dressed or wearing pajamas and are always glued to the TV.
I find such behaviour absolutely disgusting and intolerable. They choose be sickeningly informal. There is no interest in being formal. Being in their pajamas, not just wearing a vest  and pajama beneath - they call that being homely.  If they had their way they would remain like that all the time.
I would forgive that if they were communicative and willing to share their opinions and thoughts. They are not.They may know a lot, but are completely unwilling to speak. They do not talk and cannot talk. It becomes tedious sitting that way. When I make a comment instead of adding to what I have said, they simply repeat what I have said
Trying to talk with such people is to reward their rudeness. They are not prepared to talk and share. Such people do not deserve anything. The behaviour of the children of my wife's siblings crude and unsettling They cannot communicate verbally so they think it is amusing to pretend to wrestle be physical which completely unacceptable behaviour. It is stupid and insane. I will not longer have anything to do with them because of this..

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